Church Snacks, when should they stop?

My husband and I are at odds every Sunday...do we bring bags full of cereal for the kids or leave them at home? Hubby says it's ridiculous to still bring them, they make a mess and are distracting and noisy; I say bring them since he ends up passing the sacrament every Sunday and then during the talks the kids climb and whine on me, so I rarely listen and thing feeling the spirit means when I don't feel REALLY angry during the meeting. If I give them a bag of snacks, life is good for all of us. We always to get a vacuum and clean up our row and others anyway. However, I know there is a point when they should stop. When is that point? Is it bad that only on fast Sunday can I help myself from grabbing a few too?

Leggings...to wear or not to wear

I love fashion but usually oogle it from a modest distance, but I've been in a quandry about one particular item for a few years...leggings. Are they really tight pants or really heavy tights? If I did dare to put my less than model legs into them, does my shirt or dress still need to go to my knee so I am considered modest. There is no "leggings" section in For the Strength of the Youth. Fortunately, while I was thinking about this for the last 3 years, I became officially too old in my eyes to don them (not that you are!)

Of course, just a day after I became too old my friend gave me a decently official answer: "At BYU, you can wear leggings, but your shirt still has to reach your knees." Case closed, right? What do you think?